Happiness 2 – Car on the Road Analogy

Why do I find it hard to be happy? JM 19.8.14

It’s your choosing. It’s always your choice whether to be happy, you can do this. You can have many things in your life that are not happy. You can have one thing you have seen that makes you happy. Or think of a thing you like in your head – cake or chocolate. Think of the thing you like, the taste of the thing you like. Imagine turning it around in your mouth for many moments. Feel the happiness of tasting it in your head. Choose the vibration of happy. Do more practice of this. How can you have the cake in your head? More practice then it comes easy to have the happy feeling. When your vibration has momentum for happy, then you will feel happier. If you have no vibration of happy then there is no momentum, then it’s hard to be happy. You must have the deliberate choosing for happy. At the end of each day before you sleep, have pen and paper and write 5 things that have made you happy that day. It’s hard when you start, then each day it gets a bit easier, then much easier. When it’s much easier then try the hard part – do it differently, write the 5 things then that you have done that  day that make you happy. That’s harder. Then you will appreciate yourself more, this is hard. This you don’t do at present. You need first to think of the happy things. Make the momentum of happy by having the thinking in your head of the happy things or a good taste. This is needed for many days then the momentum grows faster, gradually building each day.

What type of environment is it best for me to live in, countryside, seaside, town?

You can have joy in any of them, you can also have joy in prison. Your now has no joy. Your prison is the monkey at present. (See Taming the Monkey mind) When your monkey is sleeping, then you can have joy, even in prison, it’s not important where you live. You can have joy when and where you choose. Always the choosing is in your head only, all environments can make you happy. Diversity of experience is good, when you are happy you will be wanting more change. You will not be wanting one thing always.

How can I make more friends?

The problem at present is that your ‘car’ is on the road of the not wanted. Your car is not on the shining road; friends don’t notice your light. Make yourself happy, then your car will be on the right road. Your vibration is different to the friends’ vibration; your vibration is slower and not shining. Your monkey has control of you (at present). When you have fear, it’s important to choose no fear – choose joy. Things don’t make you happy, it’s only the choosing in your head. Then you will be on the happy road where what you want is.

Choose the road of the wanted

Car Analogy – Note from Saesneggar: Robert says that moment by moment, our vibration attracts (like a magnet) that version of reality that best matches our current vibration. I struggled to understand this concept, so he explained using the analogy that I am driving my car (living my now) along a section of road that matches my vibration. A change in my vibration causes my car to switch to a different road  ̶  to happy (fast vibration) or sad (slow) or one of a million shades of grey in between (possible universes). Our life experience is attracted, section by section, in each moment as we go through life.

Robert insists that nobody can tell your future, not even your Inner Being. Humans can imagine a future based on past experiences. Your Inner Being can see a small distance in your headlights, based on probability and your current vibration, but your Inner Being cannot influence your vibration to switch roads, only you can do this.

For some of Robert’s tips on how to be happy see Attract Positivity

Happiness 1 – Ripples in the Lake Analogy

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If someone around us is unhappy, should we change our thoughts to happy to influence them for happy? JP 26.8.14

A rock has ripples when it hits the water. When you talk to the ones who are unhappy, their ripples hit you. You can choose to allow their ripple on your head, or your ripple on their head. Now not all ripples are the same. When the ripples have momentum, big passion, then the momentum makes a thought-form, a strong ripple. When there is no momentum, there is no thought-form, only a small ripple and the thought-form of the other person may be stronger and may hit you. It’s important for you to choose to have the momentum for happy thought-forms, then your ripple is big and will hit their ripples and they will feel your happiness. Then they will feel the difference in your vibration and notice it. They will want it, like the taste of something nice. There is no shame, it doesn’t mean that you don’t care that they aren’t happy. You care a lot, that’s why you are choosing the momentum of happy, it’s not to feel guilty about. This is how you can help and you can explain to them that you are choosing deliberately to always be happy. You choose the bowl of food with the happy. Try new bowls to experience new. Must always want to try the unknown. If you don’t like it you can quickly choose what you do like. Quickly flick off unwanted thoughts like a cinder that lands on your trousers from a fire. Explain this to the friends.

(LF G 9.6.14) When you are not happy, you don’t have the fast energy from your Inner Being. You manifest a thought-form which is not strong, then all around you the other Wooden Dolls have manifested a strong thought-form, it’s stronger than you. Then your life has the attachment of the things that are wanted for the others, not for you. You are like the cork floating in the pool of another. Your Inner Being is not wanting that.

If there is a huge sadness in the world and we change the vibration to happy, I think that would make a difference, is this how we affect energies JP 26.8.14

This is the thinking of the ripple. Your stone has a ripple, the stone of the big sadness has a big ripple. The stones hit the water at the same moment. One ripple stops the other ripple, this is the energy of the water. Your energy has the balance of the energy of their sadness. Can only be in moments like ripples. There is always need for thought-forms on this (positivity); more passion makes a big ripple then it has more strength for changing things. There can be many of such.

The important thing is what is in your head, don’t think of what happened, have the thought-forms of seeing in your head what is wanted. If your friend is not well, not happy, then see in your head the friend happy, singing, dancing, laughing, always, then your ripple will have the knowing of them happy. But it’s important for you to know you are able to put your car on the wanted road, but you cannot put someone else’s car on the wanted road, only the person can put their own car on the road. Like when you are in your car, you have the steering wheel, you sit in the car but you don’t like the road, you want another road, you’re not able to make the car be another road, can only send the ripple with the steering wheel to put the car on the other road.

Wooden Dolls are always fearing of what is to be (future) and they are not happy about what has been (past). They have the vibration of the not wanted. This is what they know. They don’t have the knowing of ‘aaah’ (happy), they have the knowing of ‘urgh’ (unhappy). They feel your ‘aaah’ ripple, then they have more from you of the ‘aaah’, they think “why is this one always ‘aah’, how does it happen? I like the feel of that, I want it.” Then you can explain to them how they can have it. There is no other way, only their choosing. They think something happens to them, then they feel in response to it. No, it’s the feeling that makes the thing happen, not the reverse.

This why I’m speaking because I want all Wooden Dolls to know this and practise choosing happy, then they will see it in their life. The wanted will happen, then they will choose more happy, then others will see them and want to be happy. Then there will be more of the wanted ripples in your environment (earth). It will change the vibration of your environment to the wanted, not the slow energy (ripple) of the not wanted. It’s now possible for the vibration of your environment (earth) to be faster, to have the faster wanted vibration, but the Wooden Dolls have the ‘urgh’ (are not happy).

Ripples In Lake – Note from Saesneggar: Robert has explained that the thoughts and actions of each of us affects many around us, both seen and unseen.  I struggled to understand the interconnectedness at first so Robert described a “picture” of ripples from a stone hitting a lake where some stones hit at the same time and some very soon after, their ripples sometimes amplify an existing ripple and sometimes cancel out an existing ripple.  He says that there is always growth, all galaxies are always expanding, always becoming. Whether the Wooden Dolls create positive (wanted) thought-forms or unwanted thought-forms dictates how the expansion happens i.e. some new ripples will amplify and some will cancel each other out, so it is the balance of all thought-forms in the moment together that makes the real difference to how that local environment expands – that is why he wants all wooden dolls to connect better with their Inner Beings so that the Inner Being can give them the appropriate emotion to help guide them.  

Law of Attraction 4 – Manifesting & Thought-forms

Is most of our life experience a reflection of our conscious beliefs? SC 7.10.14

Ah this is true. The thought-form is able to manifest. The thought-form, this is always the practice vibration, the thought had many times. (When) the thought is always the same, this is the belief, so when someone has the knowing in their head, the belief in their head: ‘I cannot have this, I cannot do this’, then the truth is they cannot have, they cannot do. The vibration, the thought-form manifests in your reality for ‘I cannot have, I cannot do’. This is the belief, it makes happen, manifest, but you can change of course of it. You can have many thoughts of, ‘I can have this’. Feel it in the belly. Have the knowing of what is wanted then have the flowing, the passion of what is wanted now. You should live in your head as if you had what is wanted now. Not you might have it in the future. No, it cannot manifest then. You must have the passion now, of living what is wanted. Then the wanted needs a small change of vibration to manifest – you have most of the doings all done in your head.

If we want something to manifest do we have to focus on the feeling of having it in the now or is the intention enough, or do we have to feel we already have it? SC 29.7.14

The intention needs momentum and thought-form to manifest the thing. Now, how to have this? It needs the knowing of having the wanted thing. The problem is that the monkey in the head says ’I don’t have this, I have wanted this many times and I don’t yet have it here’. The monkey knows it’s not there, it’s not possible for your head to say ‘I have this’, because you know you don’t have it. It’s not possible to tell the head that the thing is there when it’s not there. It doesn’t work. The way to do this differently, what works, is for your thinking and your momentum, it is important to choose more of the wanted, more thinking of what is wanted.

I’ll give you a picture to illustrate: the flower – how it looks, how big it is, the colour, the shape, how it all looks. You see the wanted flower in your head, but no flower is coming, so you know now that the image of the flower in your head is not finished. Visualise the flower more. See the flower again, put more of the flower in your head. The flower is different now, changed, you have the feel of the passion, the momentum, the excitement in your head – the monkey knows he is seeing the flower in the head. It has all the doings of the finished flower in the head. All is happy, all is comfortable with all the knowings of flower in the head, then it can manifest. Then the flower there – it’s not a big step, it’s a small step for the momentum. The thought-form of the flower is in your head and your vibration many times: it’s comfortable, always there, not new, not exciting, it’s boring, it’s always there.

Then it happens, always like the woman who is wanting a baby, but has no baby. She is trying many wantings for a baby, but no baby; then she starts not to care now, she accepts there is no baby. She then has the momentum of other things she wants, she is not thinking of the baby, then the baby comes when she is not thinking about a baby. Why does this happen? This is the same. When a big thing is wanted very much, then the momentum, the thought form, is a problem for there is much wanting but not having it. Then this cannot manifest; it can only manifest when it’s boring, when the feeling is ‘oh it’s here, I don’t care, or it’s not here I don’t care’. The wanting is there, and the picture in the head of what is wanted is finished, then have the feeling of not caring – then it happens, it manifests. For there is no problem, there is no blocking by the monkey of the momentum for manifesting.

How long must we think positive thoughts most of each day instead of negative thoughts before we start to attract/manifest the things that we wish for? Sg 5.2013

The question is not right. It’s not a matter of time, only momentum, (it depends on) how much momentum is in the thought-form how quick what is wanted comes. Ha! your Inner Being has big knowings of it, he always chooses happy, has what is wanted, he doesn’t have energy wasted. You have knowings, but you choose ‘urgh’ (feeling negative). It’s a big waste – it brings what is not wanted, ha ha.

 

Law of Attraction 3 – Split Wanting, Worry, Writing a List

I just have changed my path, I have left my job which I didn’t enjoy and I have done a course to work with the dying and I also do healing, but at the moment things are moving very slowly and I just hope that I am on the right path JG 10.6.14

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The problem here is in your head you don’t know what you want. You are thinking ‘I want this’ but you are also thinking ‘urgh, did I make a mistake? Did I run and jump off a cliff into the sea? The jump from the cliff into the sea felt good. I wanted that, but now I am in the sea, I cannot get back up hill. Did I want that, did I not want that, should I not have done that?’ That is problem for that gives the ‘urgh’ (negative feeling) and then that slows the momentum for the healing work. You must always have a knowing in your head, ‘I want this, not in the future, no, now. It’s here now. I am here, I am this. I want you to write on the contraption (computer); I want you to think in your head what is best for the healing and the working with the dying. Why I want it, when I want it, how it feels in me when I am doing all of this that I wanted when I ran and jumped off the cliff, my dream,yes, when I am doing my dream. How I am feeling when I am doing all these things. I want you to make a big, big list of all of this and you look many times at the list and you put new things on the list each time you look. You put bigger things and the list is growing. Now, this is important, as your list is growing, so your momentum for this is growing and the feeling of lying in the sea looking up at the hill, it’s not there. The feeling of the jump and the flying into water, that is there. The feeling, the momentum of the dream, you need to get it back. It’s gone, it’s too small now.

That is why you are not happy, that the things might not happen as you are wanting. There is doubt in your head that you made a mistake. It was not a mistake, no, the problem is that when you decide on the dream it feels good, the run at the cliff top feels good, the first float in the water feels good, but now what? That is the problem, you need a long list, growing each moment that you look on the list, put more new things on the list. Then what happens is that the momentum in your head has big thought-forms, strong thought-forms of what is wanted in the dream and the things of the dream they stick to your head. They are in your day. At present, you don’t have any momentum strong enough for any to stick.

I feel as if my intelligence and my mental focus is not as it used to be. How can I improve? JG 10.6.14

Your wanting is not what your wanting was. Your momentum is different from your momentum in earlier times. The head is still working, you can still have doings of the head when the momentum is there for those doings. Your dream is not the same as your dream before. The wanting is not the same. But also, another problem is that the monkey in your head is worrying. The monkey always worries ‘I cannot make the dream happen, it won’t happen’. Always that gives the head much time for the monkey and very little time for the dream. The stressing of monkey makes the part of the head that does the thinking have less momentum than the monkey has in the head. This is normal, that is how the physical body survives for the monkey has the bigger part survival part in the head. This will always have to be so. So how do you not have the problem? You have more momentum for the dream. Then as one thing, comes to your experience that is wanted for the dream, the monkey goes ‘Oh, ah, the dream it’s starting, it’s happening’, then there is less stress. Then the next thing for the dream soon manifests and the monkey again is less stressed. It’s not fast, it will take time to happen, but the monkey will be happy then, thinking ‘no problem, the dream is happening, I’m happy’, then the monkey sleeps. Then you can have the momentum away from monkey into the part of the head that is for the thinking, then it can be easy. Then the doings can be easy again. The monkey is the problem for that, but the monkey will not sleep if it’s not happy. It needs to know that it has not made a mistake, but has done what was wanted.

Time & Parallel Lives

Time

Can you explain the difference between your time and our time. My understanding that where you are in spirit, all time is one now, it’s not linear like we have in this environment. But if it’s not linear, do you already know what our choices are going to be? CC 1.7.14

I have not knowing how to show a picture for this. To explain, what you call time is this environment, it has time. It has a slow vibration, big mass, then gravity has workings here, this environment is slow vibration, big mass. The environment of the Inner Being has no mass, has a fast vibration, there is no mass here, the gravity is not noticed. It cannot be noticed if there is no mass and a fast vibration. Time is the measure of the light, of the vibration of the light from one place to another place in your environment. It is controlled by gravity, yes. Now we have none of that, no such. No gravity, no mass, no time. The now is our moments always, but we have the now experience of the Wooden Dolls in our now moments. They are the doings in the time of their environment. Many different times in the environments of the different wooden dolls, not of you. You and Saesneggar are in the same time (zone), but others have other timing, before and after, but this only how you seeing it in your environment. It’s not real, it is shown because of gravity.

So if you can see the past and future of our environments, can you also see what our choosings will be? CC 1.7.14

No, the choosings are of you. I can have a small jump into environments to look, but I and your Inner Being are not able for make choosings. Only Wooden Doll is able make choosing. We have the wanting, big wanting and we sending the vibration to help influence the choosing of the WD, but the Wooden Doll can still have the choosing to, or not to.

Can you please explain again about how you see our linear time. It’s hard to understand how in your now you can go back in our time to incarnate a Wooden Doll. Wouldn’t them going back in the past affect our now? CC 7.10.14

This so. This is not real. They do not have time. The Inner Being has now, all of now, he is not of time. He does not go back and go forward. He has only now.

So from our point of view, all of the incarnations in the past have already happened?

This so. The seeing of you is not always of now, it has only the small (seeing) of now, the moment. Cannot have the seeing of the one of the future of you.

If you can have a WD in our future, and they are all seeing it in the now, doesn’t that mean you can experience the future of earth?

They have only the knowing of the experience of their Wooden Doll. They do not have the knowing of all. They can only see the experiences of (their Wooden Dolls).

So are there different realities in the future?

There is the multiverse. There are millions and millions of the possible. It is not known what (you will) manifest. You are able to make the change. You can manifest any. (We) cannot have the knowing of which you choose.

 

Parallel Lives

What happens to the choices we don’t make? Are different versions of the same Wooden Doll existing in parallel universes in the same now? CC 22.7.14

Not this, no. The Wooden Doll has the now. There are many choices in the now. The choosing that has the momentum, then has big momentum, has thought-form. The energy thought-form, it manifests, then the Wooden Doll has the experience. No other (experience) manifests for there is no momentum for the thought-form, it cannot manifest.

So there is only one version of each Wooden Doll and they have many choices to make and whatever they choose is their reality?

This is so. It can change. It can be that in the moment (a person is thinking): ‘I am choosing this one, but I don’t have big momentum, it does not have a big enough thought-form to manifest. I am thinking it’s not working. So I choose another, again no momentum’. The monkey is thinking it’s not working, so there are more choosings, many choosings; it’s all confusion for none are working. I am always seeing this in Wooden Dolls. There is need for thinking and choosing, then they have the momentum (to manifest). This is important. There is need of big momentum for the thought-forms. When there is enough, then it will manifest. Choose and have the passion of what you have chosen; (don’t have) the monkey doubting, that’s the problem.